The Book of Revelation

Pádraig Ó Tuama

What’s your love language? he asked.Leaving, she replied.No, no, he said. There’s five:words of affirmation, touch, and gifts,the fourth is time, and, damn, I forget the fifth,I know it rhymes with purpose.Where do you get this shit? she said. Anyway,all of them. And death. Hunger too. And things I don’t havethe words for.It doesn’t work like that, he said. In the bookyou answer fifty questions and get resultsby turning to the end.You and your certitudes, she said.Come on, come on, he said, just play along. Which one’s yours:words, or touch, or time, or gifts, or—service! yes, that’s the fifth.Did you love your kids? she said.Of course I did, he said.How? she said. With words, or touch, or time,or gifts? Or piles of knickers, jocks, and socksleft laundered on the landing?Fine. You’ve made your point, he said.If you want to know, mine is words of affirmation.I bet you yours is time.

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Pádraig Ó Tuama (b. 1975, Ireland) is a poet with interests in language, violence, power, and religion. He is the host of On Being’s Poetry Unbound—for which he writes a weekly substack (poetryunbound.substack.com)—and has published volumes of poetry, essays, a memoir, and theology. 2025 saw the publication of Kitchen Hymns, a volume of original poems, and the anthology 44 Poems on Being with Each Other. He is poet-in-residence with the Conflict and Cooperation Centre at Columbia University in New York City. He mostly lives in the States but tries to get back to Ireland often. Read more at: padraigotuama.com

Pádraig Ó Tuama’s Kitchen Hymns opens with a question: “Do You Believe in God?” — but the bee, “gone extinct,” cannot answer, and the grass calls believe “a poor verb.” This collection trades belief for language, and philosophy is grounded in form and narrative. Kitchen Hymns is structured like a ghost mass, where even if God is a “favorite emptiness,” longing still has things to say: Jesus and Persephone meet at Hell’s exit and discuss survival; someone believes more in birds than belief; hares carry messages from the overworld to the underworld. A study in lyric address, Kitchen Hymns speaks to a shifting “you”: an unknown you; the strange you; a lover, a hated other; the you of erotic desire; the you of creation and destruction. Large themes are informed by and contained in a poetics of observation, humor, trauma, dialogics, lament, rage and praise. Delivered in finely honed melodies, shaped with force and conviction, Kitchen Hymns“reckon[s] with the empty,” and becomes “busy with a body / not a question.”

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